How does a boxer regain confidence after a defeat?

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  1. 941Jeremy

    941Jeremy Active Member Full Member

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    I think most are very stubborn and are literally delusional when it comes to their first loss, therefore their confidence rarely wavers. That's why many insist on avenging ill advised rematches. It's once they get in the ring and realize that its happening again that you see their confidence dissappear live in action, I've seen this happen a hundred or so times.
     
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  2. Serge

    Serge Ginger Dracula Staff Member

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    No glass-jawed fighter can be truly self-confident. How could they when they can't take a pop on the whiskers whilst competing in a sport where punching your opponent in the head and getting punched in the head is the name of the game? Glass- jawed fighters categorically do not belong in the sport.

    Imagine a fire service which was full of firefighters who suffer from pyrophobia? Well that's exactly what the sport of professional boxing would be like if all the registered pros were glass-jawed frauds like Roy.

    To be fair to Roy, he and his team devised a cunning plan to keep that repulsive old lady glass jaw of his hidden from the casuals and getting exposed much sooner than it was and it's a cunning plan which sadly thanks to him and, as has also thanks to him PED abuse, has become extremely common in the sport these days, especially over in the US where it's literally the blueprint for navigating the career paths of glass-jawed fighters or ones who have been cursed with below average punch resistance which is obviously an extremely common affliction over there too. And that cunning plan entails completely avoiding legit bangers and KO artists

    One of the most sickening aspects about this for me are the legions of Roy's scarry delusional and obsessive stalker fanboys and glass-jaw apologists who spend their every waking moment fantasizing about having intimate sexual relations with him and trying to convince the entire boxing world that their hero wasn't a detective genes glass-jawed freak all along which of course everyone outside that creepy little cult knows damn well he always was.

    Real men/iron-jawed warriors like Usyk and Loma (and to be fair so did some of the old school real fighting men from over in the US back in the day too) are forging careers swimming in shark-infested waters full of Great White, Tiger and Bull sharks, whereas, conversely, glass-jawed snake oil salesmen legit banger avoiding frauds like Roy forged or are currently forging careers off swimming in shark-infested waters full of Basking sharks which the casuals and their delusional imbecilic fans are too stupid to realize are, despite their vast size, completely harmless unless you happen to be plankton
     
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  3. Guerra

    Guerra Well-Known Member Full Member

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    I think a lot of boxers take a loss badly cause they build themselves up to be these invincible bad men. Prince Naseem is a good example of a loss taking a guys soul.

    In a way its best to get a defeat early on so it doesnt worry or delude you anymore.
    Hopkins never got hold back by his debut loss.

    Most logical solition is to let it slide, learn from it and come back even harder.
    But alot more difficult to do in reality.

    I think Ali is a good example of this.
    He took a loss vs Frazier but kept going, got his jaw broken by norton and still kept going to defeat both of them and Foreman in Zaire of course ro reclaim his title.

    Another great example is Marvin Hagler. As a teen He took a bad beating in front of his friends by Dornell Wigfall who even took his jacket.
    Guy could have moved or be ducking wigfall whenever he saw him. Instead he joined the boxing gym and beat the guy up twice years later as a pro.
    Same with his losses to Watts and Monroe.

    Dont lose confidence in yourself, threat it as a temporary setback and work hard and go towarda avenging that loss or a path of succes.
     
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  4. Forza

    Forza Obsessed with Boxing Full Member

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    I was doing some boxrec browsing and I've noticed a few top boxers from the past would get right back on the horse after a loss, like 2 or 3 months later. Just getting right back into it
     
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  5. tealt

    tealt Boxing Addict Full Member

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    I am a fairly new fan but was this obsession with being undefeated there before Mayweather? I think without this obsession fighters would bounce back better and take on more challenges.
     
  6. MidniteProwler

    MidniteProwler Fab 4. Mayor of Aussie Boxing Full Member

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    Buzz off shorty
     
  7. KO KIDD

    KO KIDD Loyal Member Full Member

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    I think a lot of it stems from the excuses that they make after they lose they create a narrative that they were off that night or that something went wrong in preparation because if they were at their true best they wouldn't have lost. The narrative if believed gives the confidence for a rematch or moving forward
     
  8. smoking mirrors

    smoking mirrors Active Member Full Member

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    fly over a Hungarian doorman to beat up

    HE’S BACK!!! NOBODY HAS EVER STOPPED ZOLTAN THIS EARLY…THE DEMONS ARE EXORCISED!!!
     
  9. KINGWILDER

    KINGWILDER Well-Known Member Full Member

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    Don’t make a billion excuses up like certain fighters…cough cough Deontay Wilder.
     
  10. NoChin

    NoChin Boxing Addict Full Member

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    Good post Serge. But next time mate, tell us how you really feel.
     
  11. NoChin

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  12. NoChin

    NoChin Boxing Addict Full Member

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    TBH Oscar has balls of steel and is a true Warrior. He'd lose, he'd fight the best straight away. Always had tough fights.

    He fought so many warriors. He'd get dropped, he'd get up and go even more harder. He was a true Mexican Warrior.
     
  13. thehook13

    thehook13 Boxing Addict Full Member

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  14. thehook13

    thehook13 Boxing Addict Full Member

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    Easier to be brave when you're the biggest earner in the sport!
     
  15. Djokovic.GOAT

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    They just need a Novak Djokovic's mindset, which is very rare.