All Aboard the "Bring Back Teke Express"

Trust me mate, nothing you could say on the internet could ever hit a nerve with me. In that previous post from a long time ago that you're bringing up for whatever reason i was not bringing up a list of issues, i was pointing out to a meathead similar to yourself i haven't lived a sheltered life.

Who diagnosed abuse? Does someone diagnosing something suddenly make it real? Abuse is abuse, if you see a doctor (?) doesn't suddenly make it real or not i don't see what point you are trying to get to in black and white Mutt world. People can be abused in all sorts of ways, emotionally, mentally, physically. If you're trying to make the argument i think you are you are even more unintelligent than i already thought you were.

 

Yes, yes, yes, waffle, waffle, waffle, insult, insult, insult, and yet, still no answer to a perfectly simple question.

You really need to stop trying so hard to make things complicated - there you are getting all flighty thinking I'm trying to make an argument, trying to second-guess the argument you think I'm trying to make, and in general making even more of a pompous arse of yourself than usual.

If it doesn't bother you so much, or strike a nerve, and if I'm more unintelligent than you already thought I was, humour me. Go on, put me out of my misery and answer my perfectly straightforward question with a perfectly straightforward answer. Can you do that?

Just to make sure you understand, for the 4th time: who diagnosed that you were abused as a child? Yourself, or a doctor?

 

Muttley

probably not a place that i should be but I will throw my 2cents worth anyway

I dont think you can diagnose abuse

It is assault and it either happened or it didn't. You know if you get abused or assaulted
If you have a disese you still have it, Diagnosed or not, but it's not until you have it diagnosed by a Dr that you KNOW you have it
When you are abused you know when it is happening no need for a Dr to tell you later

as i said none of my business just thought I would jump in

I need a few more posts for my 50 lol

 

I think you are the one who does not understand. Nobody diagnosed anything, you don't see a psychologist who says 'hmm yes this person was emotionally abused as a child" unless a psychiatric evaluation is needed due to a crime or a related mental issue. Why would i see a doctor to try and get diagnosed with emotional abuse as you put it which doesn't even make sense? I was emotionally abused, period end of story. You didn't answer my question, why on earth would you bring this up out of nowhere? Obviously i stay on your mind You're just a joke to me mate, does it burn?

 

no worries mate :yep

 

Just ignore Muttley mate, he's just here for me to run circles around and make him mad. He's an angry dude, he probably doesn't like you now, should've kept quiet. Watch what you type pal, he's gonna be watching you closely now

 

At last!!! I hoped for an answer somewhere in that torrent of self-righteousness - finally!!! :happy And it only took 5 attempts!

So if a doctor didn't tell you you were abused as a child, you must have 'self-diagnosed' ie: come to the conclusion that you were abused as a child yourself.

So was this realisation something that occurred at the time, or did you form this 'diagnosis' some years after the event?

 

You must feel threatened to be actively recruiting - surely someone who can run circles around me doesn't need virtual support from another poster?

I'm actually waiting for you to start making me look stupid, and run rings around me - even a half-ring around me would be good at this point, just so I know you've actually got what you keep claiming you have :hey

 

No i didn't realise it at the time, when you're 5 years old you don't understand that the things said to you are detrimental, you understand 10-15 years later when you remember clearly what was said and it brings up hurt and resentment towards the person. Abuse is abuse, it really is very simple Muttly, there's no diagnosis and magic pill for it. You'll be happy to know those issues are well and truly behind me now, i hope you can get over yours too :good

 

I wasn't recruiting anybody, don't get threatened, i was just warning the poor bloke what he could be getting himself into, a nonstop argument with a 'special' person.

To be honest Mutt you don't need me to help you look stupid, you're very capable of doing that all by yourself. I give myself too much credit, you're a bit of fun but a blind dog could run circles around you.

 

haze Mutt


dont worry about me too much nothing anyone says on a boxing message board is going to worry me in anyway whatsoever



I like you two a lot of passion with your posts good to see

 

So you did self-diagnose then. Interesting, I wonder if the memories you relied on to come to this conclusion were unbiased and objective? (this is a rhetorical question, you are not required to answer it).

I couldn't care less whether you're over it or not, but to be honest, I don't believe you are.

So, in the same post that you listed all of your issues in an effort to make a meathead like me realise you hadn't led a sheltered life, you also mentioned that you 'gave up smoking'. Is that correct?

 

Yes indeed, more of the same from you, but still a distinct lack of substance. You've run out of witticism, and gone through your formulaic scripted answers, now you think a little self-effacement will save the day. How boring, talk about an anti-climax.

You keep saying the same things, but never actually delivering.

So far you've told me you can make me look stupid time and time again, you've told another poster you can run circles around me, you've implied I'm a meathead, I'm unintelligent, but you've yet to actually prove any of these things.

I was really looking forward to testing my wit against your self-proclaimed intelligence, but it seems you don't possess the necessary tools.

 

Yes aswell as other things. What's your point? The guy who i was talking to said i'd probably led a rosy sheltered life and never been through anything so i quickly rattled off some things i could think of that i had overcome, things such as friends suicide, mothers death, my battles as a teenager with anxiety and depression, as you mention quitting smoking etc.things that i've dealt with so far at the age of 22, if i knew an internet stalker was gonna be going through my old posts i would've put more effort into them.

 

No Muttley my friend, you have made yourself look stupid, if it seems my posts towards you are dying down it's just because i'm starting to get a bit disturbed that you've put all this effort into me, i'm sorry i hurt your feelings and made you feel stupid.

I never proclaimed myself intelligent, you keep saying those things and calling me a genius and all that, i'm flattered mate but i'm just an average bloke. I know it's scary when you think people are better than you but just keep an open mind, drop the anger and worry about yourself, that's when you'll start to develop some more, it's never too late :good