So you're admitting you enjoy watching two oiled up men fighting yet you're calling me gay. I know you're a Golovkin fan and being a mental fruit is a given in this case but this is border line hilarious so far. "It's gay to have a photo of a boxer as an avatar in a Boxing forum" - The average Golovkin fan.
You know, illegitimate is not the insult it once was. The stigma of illegitimate births has made it so that they are not as uncommon. Intact it's like you said you sometimes have to remind people that some of us were born in wedlock and it really should be the norm. But societies like everything changes, so just adapt.