I found the infamous photo....this was a year before i joined a band and started taking care of my hair lol Lets see if you can see it! https://www.wikidata.org/wiki/Q1294939
hahahaha no it was actually a girl band, at least before I joined.....but my girlfriend told me she wanted me to practice with them so i could spend that time with her too and they also wanted to cover Duran Duran, WHAM, Michael Jackson and boy songs lol plus I had the tape with all the videos on it so they told me which songs they wanted, I passed them from my VCR to my tape recorder and presto! next day we all got on the school stage and pretended to sing lol .....what we did have to do was the dances....cause you cannot pretend to be dancing lol it was a lot of fun! I dated who I thought was going to be my wife someday, and got to be popular and also had the double whammy that the other girls in the band gave me the "sister" treatment-they literally always said they were my sisters- so i was in 7th Heaven so to speak lol the kicker is my gf was from the States (having recently moved to Puerto Rico) and she must have been pretty liberal because to her it was like she saw all that and didnt give a darn lol ....I think deep down she knew and saw me as a female also. Ih and also, clarification: we were the 5 only kids who could speak English in my class. My girl was from Boston, my dad is from New York and the others I dont remember the details but they too were straight A's in English.