So do u reckon u can be friends with the person outside the ring and for sparring how do u balance this no friends approach with that its supposed to be about learning / improving vs getting beat up espc for newies, not being smart as a just after u r insights...
when you spar, friends or not, let them know before if you plan on going hard, or if you plan on taking it a bit slow and working on technique.
Im friends/acquaintances with all my regular sparring partners outside the ring. Inside the ring we arent friends... of course i wouldnt take cheap shots or the things you try and get away with in a real fight but both of us are trying to get better... there is no reason to take it easy on someone. *this is all considering equal boxing experience...
Hi guys thanks for all the awesome replies I think you guys nailed it when you mentioned conditioning, not being used to following up after connecting with a solid punch, and being fearful of being countered while going on the offensive. Cardio and conditioning I feel is a universal thing most people can achieve if they work hard and are persistant with it. Including myself too. However the psychology of not stopping or hesitating after landing a "wobbler" and dealing with the fear of getting countered I sense might take a bit more work..