I have never boxed in my life, I never will. What is it like being a boxer (if you are/have been one) before you make your way to the ring...and does anyone have any interesting stories about the pre-fight nerves/fear, or lack of both on an amatuer level, pro, or just a fighter. Replies regarding ATGs stories are also welcome. This is a genuine thread...so any idiots would be best advised to not contribute.
This ^ Then again it depends on how u feel before the fight. I've had fights were I've felt great before and so I didn't allow my mind to get psyched out, just really nervous. Also have had fights were I felt like ****, sick or sore, then add the anxiety and I felt like I should of been on my death bed let alone walking up the stairs to the ring. I broke myself down mentally with worry before the fight. I think the more you fight and go thru it does get a little easier and you can draw on your experience. The feeling afterwards can be blissful sometimes because the weight is lifted and you just conquered your fear.
So many feelings All differ depending on the level and different factors... Keeping calm is so so SOOO important... but staying calm before stepping out in front of millions to face a top level boxer and fighting... imagine it? crazy. Then add the mental warfare between fighters... For me first time sparring (fight situation - not 'learning' easy going sparring) heart racing due to adrenalin jittery on edge.. not scared infact pretty confident just trying to keep cool to preserve energy when it's needed. I ended up feeling sorry for the opponent - was throwing silly telegraphed right hands which were easily countered with straight lefts ending up with him getting a busted in only a couple of minutes :/
The first fights you feel really nervous on the ring, it blocks your senses and you fight out of instinct. After a few fights and constant training, that dissapears and you're able to breathe and move around on the ring without nerves messing you up. As for the fight itself, it's an amazing feeling, adrenaline and happiness at the same time. I've never been knockdown or knocked out so i dont know how that would feel or how that affects the performance, but the important thing is to be brave despite everything. It's a contact sport, but you're not killing yourself up in the ring. To be a boxer is something of pride. To tell people you love what you do, to experiment new things everyday on the gym, it's pure bliss. To tell my loved ones of my plans, to watch other fights, to analyze and break down other fighters. I love everything about boxing.
Yup. The easy part is the fight, once your in the fight and it's on, the fear is gone and it's just happening. The most difficult thing like you said is all the waiting before the fight. That's what a lot of people don't get that boxing involves so much more than just being in the ring, it takes something special to deal with everything leading up to a fight.
Im nervous the night before, not in a 'im scared of being hurt way' because ive been boxing now since i was 9. but nervous of not performing, not being happy with myself etc. once i get to the changing rooms and the walk-in, i seriously love it. nothing like it, as some have already said, the feeling of going into battle. my first few bouts, i found it hard to control my adrenaline, can be incredibly draining! i guess the more you do it, the easier it becomes in a way. but i respect anybody who gets in the ring
Anxiety in the ring happens, if I feel I've not done or doing enough, never fear though )I haven't fought pro so maybe that's why)
I read a book about some old time fighters and their fears: Archie Moore: Had an eating disorder (Many contributed it to his nerves from boxing). Joe Louis: Would be violently sick (throwing up) the day of his fights from stress/nerves. Carmen Basillio: Literally had to be locked out of his dressing room prior to his pro debut; Carmen later said he was terrified of boxing and it caused him to almost pass out before fights. And there is one big name fighter that I can not recall that said his trainer took him to a mortuary before his pro debut. One of the coffins had the fighter's name on it; the trainer told him boxing extends life, trains you for a long existance. The fighter said he visualized the coffin before every fight, which calmed his nerves (ie: led him to a safe/comfort zone).
I never got a chance to compete, but there were days I'd have sparring sessions as brutal as fights in front of everyone else in the gym. Was always nervous. Like someone else said, not necessarily about getting hurt, but performing shitty, looking bad, disappointing myself, doing worse than I know I'm capable of, etc.
Seriously great thread. During ring walks I always say "I wonder what these guys are thinking right now." In my very limited experience doing some kenpo tourneys in my 20s, the wait was clearly the hardest part for me. Especially the first time. The night before was brutal; I didn't even know who my opponent was going to be. Funny enough, after I got dropped once (not KO'd) it got easier.
To be honest, boxing is kind of a love/hate relationship with a lot of highs and lows. A lot of times training and sparring is so hard I ask myself why I even do it. But then I'm dying to get back in the gym afterwards. I can only imagine the pressure fighters at the top level go through. Bradley's suicide comment was telling.