No man should be subjected to a Kama Sutra inspired feel-up before a HW punch -up. It releases relaxants, neurotrasmittantly speaking. You want the GABA people. A man should not be relaxed in the ring with dopamine inducing, good-job-son, maternal caressing; but alert with a healthy pinch of nervousness. Relaxedness works when putting on the 18th to avoid the double bogey; not in the squared circle. Casualness is AJ's mantra but that can morph into sleepiness at the drop of a hat. Wake up you millennial! Yet another victim of the easy life. Maybe a crisis or two like this will astir the senses; but I fear it could be too late.