What a bad year

Discussion in 'World Boxing Forum' started by THN, May 30, 2008.


  1. THN

    THN Boxing Addict Full Member

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    3 months ago my wife and yongest daughter was 15 min from the death by a leak in our heat system ( gas ). I found them unconsius just in time.This morning my 19 year old daughter was sexually molested in the middel of Copenhagen, I don't think I can take more right now.
    I know some bad people who maybe could find the guy, I just don't know bc. it dosent help my daughter if I kill the guy, but on the other hand as a father I feel that I should do somthing?
    What I ask for is a good advise.
    THN

    Wrong Forum sorry. But I don't know how to move it to the lounge
     
  2. thespecialone

    thespecialone Active Member Full Member

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    Don't kill him make him suffer somehow for the rest of his life.

    That is one **** year but hang tough, chin up the good times will come.
     
  3. CJLightweight

    CJLightweight Lightweight Kingpin Full Member

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    stop talking about killing, i know it hurts and perhaps if i was you i'd be thinking the same thing but you wouldn't be there for her as a father or for your family as a father after comitting a crime.

    Everybody has up and downs, not every year is a bad year..you should be just thanking God nothing bad really happened, nearly killed by the gas system but nothing bad really. I was nearly killed a lot of times drowning but i wouldn't say at all that the year was bad.

    anyway this should be on the lounge:yep
     
  4. CJLightweight

    CJLightweight Lightweight Kingpin Full Member

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    exactly... killing is wrong, but what is a better way than killing:hey

    cut his arm off or something just don't kill.
     
  5. THN

    THN Boxing Addict Full Member

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    I know, I know but I just feel I should be doing somthing
     
  6. BigBone

    BigBone Boxing Addict Full Member

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    Watch The Godfather Part One, first 5 minutes
     
  7. CJLightweight

    CJLightweight Lightweight Kingpin Full Member

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    something to get your mind off the hate.. perhaps a vacation would do or a family picnic at weekend.
     
  8. THN

    THN Boxing Addict Full Member

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    I would love if it was a joke, and I'm not looking for attention, just have a lot of mixed up feelings in the wrong forum. If it's that hard for you then **** of, idiot.
     
  9. pipe wrenched

    pipe wrenched ESB ELITE SQUAD Full Member

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    Awefully sorry to hear that. Just be strong and be smart for your family needs you.
     
  10. peter5

    peter5 Marco.A.Barrera Full Member

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    Ignore that ***** mate.

    Sorry to hear your having a lousy time of late mate, but like the others have said, dont do some crazy **** that gets you in trouble too, you have a family to think of, they are whats important, no point you being banged up in jail for murder/assault etc, you aint no good to them in there :deal And if you feel like you should have been there/could have done something...well dont, you cant protect people all the time, theres ****s everywhere. Just look after your daughter and family, they need you more than you need redemption.

    Peace and goodwill to you, hope the next 6 months are better for you :good
     
  11. TFFP

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    I tend to find these things are cyclical, I have a **** few months or even a year followed by a good. Perhaps these things made you realise how much you care for your family, and you should be with them and think about doing positive things with them instead of negative **** like killing. If you need to take out your frustrations go to the gym and use it constructively

    Other than that, console yourself Kessler is back soon, if you are indeed a Dane :yep
     
  12. Fab2333

    Fab2333 Needs to Get It 2Gether Full Member

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    damn man, im sorry that whole molesting thing is absolutely ridiculous. And That **** makes me angry man. If I had a daughter and some1 did that2 her, and I find the person, im not even gonna lie I woud probably murder him. I know killing wouldnt b the way 2 go, but certain things I cant stand 4.
     
  13. sthomas

    sthomas Boxing Addict Full Member

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    Thn, I am very sorry for what you and your family are going through. Screw the lounge, I'm glad you posted here. First off, be there for your daughter, tell her how much you love her and that you and your family will always be there for her. She needs support more than ever.

    Get your 19 year old to the best Doctor who deals with sexual diseases ASAP. I suggest she go to a woman Dr., so she is more comfortable. Be with your daughter the whole time, maybe have your wife in the examining room.

    Report the crime to the police ASAP. Help your daughter be brave here. A lot of victims are scared or embarrased to tell the details of the incident. Do not leave her alone here. You and/or your wife need to be with her when she's talking to the police for support.

    Don't loose your head plotting revenge of this *******. Nothing good will come from it. If you do something rash, beating the **** out of the scum bag or worse, you will only hurt your daghter more in the long run. Your daughter and family needs you around, not in prison because of this *******.

    Best of luck. You are in my thoughts and prayers
     
  14. CJLightweight

    CJLightweight Lightweight Kingpin Full Member

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    why kill when cutting his arm of is better. You don't get charges of assault if you wore some mask not get caught. Police are more keen on hunting murder suspects rather than if you just cut the guy's arm off and steal a bit of money. Police would only viewed it as a robbery
     
  15. CJLightweight

    CJLightweight Lightweight Kingpin Full Member

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    sorry for such an advice but i'm putting myself in your situation and i could also feel you especially about that sexual harrassment thing..

    hard to say and think of something nice if you're in that situation but i agree its wrong and it would be best not to follow it